Think of a time you had mind-blowing sex. Now think of the last time you had sex. How do they compare?
Boring sex is on the rise and 23% of Americans haven’t had sex once in the last year. Now read that again: one in four of us hasn’t had sex for over a year.
It’s easy to let the passion in the bedroom take a back seat. But if that ‘back seat’ isn’t you and a lover in the back of a steamy vehicle having a spontaneous session, then you need to spice up your love life.
But don’t worry, we’re here to help and there’s plenty you can do!
Read on for our top tips to reintroduce some excitement to your sex life.
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1. Lingerie
If you want to feel good in the bedroom, make sure you feel good about yourself first. What better way to do that than treating yourself to some fancy lace and silk?
Trust us, it’ll do wonders for your partner too.
Want to feel sexy again? You will when you see their eyes bug out their head at the sight of you.
2. Spontaneity
Remember the first few months with a new partner? Sex anywhere, any time, right? No venue was too inappropriate (within reason).
Well, there’s a reason that spontaneity feels so good. The extra dopamine hit you get from feeling naughty improves your sex life ten-fold.
If you’re feeling stuck in a routine, try surprising your partner when they least expect it.
3. Sexting
No, it’s not just for teens. Send your partner a dirty picture or a saucy message telling them what you’ll do to them later. Enjoy teasing them while they’re at work and see how quickly they take you to bed when they get home.
A word of warning about sexting: remember that there can be privacy issues. We won’t lecture you, but make sure you trust your partner before sending anything racy.
4. Roleplay
Roleplay is a sure-fire way to spice up the bedroom. Talk to your partner about mutual fantasies and then bring them to life. It might feel strange at first, but you’ll get the hang of it.
Roleplaying can be great fun and bring back the passion. Just make sure you’re both into it. There’s nothing worse than playing out something you find cringe-worthy, degrading, or just downright inappropriate.
5. Toys
The one we’ve all been waiting for: sex toys, the holy grail of keeping a sex life interesting. No matter your experience level, there’s something for you.
If you’re a rookie, start with a simple vibrator for mutual pleasure. For the more adventurous out there, there are no adult toys we recommend more than anal beads to liven things up.
Spice up Your Love Life Today
So, are you feeling ready to spice up your love life? You won’t regret it. Get online, buy some goodies, and chat with your partner about more adventurous things you can do to get the maximum pleasure.
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